The majority says they shouldn't...
Published on November 15, 2005 By greywar In Gaming

     I previously wrote this article regarding my concern about kids playing World of Warcraft unsupervised. After nearly 19,000 unique hits it ranks as my most widely read article to date. The debate in the commentary was fierce as people who have never read my blog assumed that since I had dared to write anything that didn't reflect gaming in a saintly light that I was in fact some sort of homebrew Jack Thompson-esque game hater.

     I thought it deserved a follow-up so here ya go...

     Shaak over at one of the WoW Guild Pages (Vorpal Bunnies) posted a chunk of the article there (with a link and byline) and invited a bit of discussion.

 

Read the whole thread over there. A few extracts.

 

He nailed the treadmill effect pretty nicely and the article he linked to is pretty telling. That kid sounded like you took his crack pipe away.

 

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(I had to put this one in whole... not sure if he is certain what side he comes down on really. - G)

 

Treadmill effect.... All I can say is that I am seeking counseling for my addiction but have been too busy playing WOW to open the phone book.

That said, my 12 yr son is in our guild. He plays next to me (on his account) and is supervised at all times. He hates it when every once in awhile I look at his chat. He does not notice the treadmill effect. Perhaps one needs to be 14 or 15 before goal oriented motivation becomes strong. My job as his parent is to keep him as safe as I can while letting him explore life. I feel that online gaming and gaming in general is part of life as we now know it.

Oh, and he does not get to play WOW as much as his father...

 

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As for the kids, you have to monitor what they do no matter whether they are on the computer or off...... I speak from experience when I say that the people you least expect are the ones that wind up being the predators.

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As for addictions, better a game than crack eh? At least that's what I keep telling myself as I sneak into bed at 3am after a run......

 

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(this guy thinks the whole thing is hooey and here is his line of "reasoning" -G)

big deal... they aren't out there trying to do or worse yet, sell crack. And for parents.. its CHEAP.. Only 15 a month. GEEEZ.. who could find a cheaper entertainment.

(I am thinking he isn't a parent... at least I hope that his only concern for his kids wouldn't be that they are cheaply entertained and out of his hair - G)

 

 My thanks to Shaak for linking the article and to Vorpal Bunnies for their discussion.



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on Nov 15, 2005
As I read their comments, I was struck by how I have either heard or thought most of what they were posting, especially about games interfering with your significant other.
Sounds like the WoW geeks agreed with your premise as to Wow being for adults and kids with supervision. (like Brad and his son)
on Nov 15, 2005

especially about games interfering with your significant other.

thats no joke there... while the games are fine if you don't intend to keep up with any serious players once you decide you need to be competetive the time consumptioncan be divorce inducing. Thusly I don't play.

on Nov 17, 2005
I don't think children should do much of anything unsupervised. I'm reminded of Native American stories where young girls were always accompanied by their grandmothers...and that was just to protect them from young men of the same tribe...

TV today is so incredibly violent. I'm not being judgmental here, I love CSI, Third Watch, 24, Medium, and a few others. But I have to occasionally go on hiatus from watching them, because they invade my subconscious. I don't play video war games, but my husband does. I don't like the influence they have on him. They encourage him to curse, swear, and use other violent words in his everyday language. He's not a violent man at all.

And the tv commercials for these games, now that Christmas is coming, they're everywhere. And the graphic violence is appalling.

I can only hope that the all pervasiveness of such violence is the death throes of a dying way of thinking. But in the meantime, the earth, women and children are all the first to get hurt.